You are going to lose us. I love you but you have to get yourself in check. I want to have this family with you. I want to do life with you, but the way that you behave at home is creating lots of stress and extra work for me. I feel like I can’t…
Some children learn to play younger or less capable than they are. They get lots of help and support and become used to it. A child who has been over-supported in the past may equate your level as support as the amount of love you have for them.If you realize that you have been oversuporting,…
Have you noticed that the bond between you and your child(ren) is damaged? Is there disconnect? Is there distance? Is there distrust? Have you tried to fix the bond but it’s not really working?Are you finding out that you cannot force connection? Have you found out that although you can make your child spend time…
I got a lot of my energy back when I started to focus on me, my life, my decisions, and my own behavior. Life becomes simpler this way. You get to control you and how you respond. Focusing so much on others and what you think they are thinking or what you think they should…
Here is How: Think like a leader. Imagine a leader who has influence with his/her team and the team willingly cooperates, maybe excitedly even. What are the qualities of that leader? Confused? Okay, what kind of leadership do you respond to? What is the best way for someone to engage you and your cooperation?When do…
𝐎𝐥𝐝 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐠𝐦:: When my child does something hurtful or makes a mistake, I must somehow instill in them the wrongness of their actions. They should feel wrong and bad about what they did. It is through really feeling bad that they will learn how to behave properly. I can make them feel bad by punishing,…
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Understand this —> All of your behavior comes from your emotion. All of your reactive, angry, short tempered behavior comes from challenging emotions that you are having a hard time recognizing and processing. If you learn how to recognize and process your emotions, you will master your emotions….and your behavior. This is so much better…
(Especially if your relationship leans toward too close, comfortable… and codependent) 1. Become attractive to yourself. It will be hard for you to feel sexy and for your partner to find you sexy, if you don’t feel attractive to you. What do you have to do to become sexy to you? 2. Get resourced outside…