I don’t say this to bash gentle Parenting people, but as a cautionary tale. I have heard there is no such thing as too much love or connection for a child. This is what some gentle/attachment parents say. Yes there is. (In a way). Stay with me. There are parents who consider themselves to be…
To the parents who are trying but feel it’s not enough: There will be times when you make mistakes. For me…I will make many more mistakes. In these moments, we all have a choice to make. We can give ourselves compassion or judgement. I’m hoping that you choose compassion, for you and your children. My…
Most of the time you are kind and in control, but once in a while you lose your shit and get really negative and toxic. In quiet moments, you understand the impact that your negativity is having on your children, but you decide to ignore that reality, hoping that things will just somehow change…or that…
Dear Dad/Husbands When we feel sadness, it moves on. When we feel it, it gets processed and doesn’t linger. I know that many of us were taught not to feel our sadness, but today, I’d like to talk about the emotions of the loved ones in our lives. Do you find it easy to…
Begin with the End in Mind: Ask yourself the big questions. Am I parenting in a way now that will lead to the greatest most holistic success for my child in the future? Am I parenting in a way now that will result in a healthy mutually loving/respectful relationship with my child for years to…
Time outs, yelling, taking things away, rewards… Are these tactics not working with your child? Let me guess: Is your child strong willed and sensitive, but also intelligent, creative and funny? If you are struggling with a spirited child, read on. 👉 I appreciate the effort and different approaches you are trying. It can be frustrating…
Do you want to know just how important CONNECTION is for kids? Watch this video below. Please. This is what happens to babies when they are not seen and connected with: a stress response, agitation, confusion, upset, loss of body control and loss of self regulation. This baby is calling for HELP, it cannot be…
I coach Dads. One of the things that I help Dads with is behavior issues. Most of the behavior issues that we talk about stem from only a few things that the child and family are having a hard time with: Emotional safety and connection Consistency/predictability Autonomy However! Because of parental stress, parents don’t notice…
Seriously. Grab a journal. Find some time. Find a quiet place and do this. You will not regret it. Here is a way you can create a productive pause in your parenting. Here is a way you can get intentional about creating the future you want for you and your family. Below, I give you…
What if most of the work of parenting was not to correct our children when they did something wrong, but an ongoing effort to help children learn about themselves and their place in the world so that they naturally chose to do good things for themselves and others? It’s a bit of leap of faith…
