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𝐎𝐥𝐝 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐠𝐦:: When my child does something hurtful or makes a mistake, I must somehow instill in them the wrongness of their actions. They should feel wrong and bad about what they did. It is through really feeling bad that they will learn how to behave properly. I can make them feel bad by punishing,…

Read more You MUST feel bad about Yourself in order to be Good

Understand this —> All of your behavior comes from your emotion. All of your reactive, angry, short tempered behavior comes from challenging emotions that you are having a hard time recognizing and processing. If you learn how to recognize and process your emotions, you will master your emotions….and your behavior. This is so much better…

Read more 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐍𝐄 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 ððžðšðœðžðŸð®ð¥ð¥ð²

(Especially if your relationship leans toward too close, comfortable… and codependent) 1. Become attractive to yourself. It will be hard for you to feel sexy and for your partner to find you sexy, if you don’t feel attractive to you. What do you have to do to become sexy to you? 2. Get resourced outside…

Read more 5 ᴡᴀʏꜱ ᴛᴏ ɪɴᴊᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴏʀᴇ ꜱᴇxʏ ɪɴᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀ Ê€á´‡ÊŸá´€á´›Éªá´É´êœ±ÊœÉªá´˜

Let’s say my son gets short with my daughter. He uses a crappy tone with her, he’s judgy, and tells her off for something. Now… a tendency of mine can be to protect her and to tell him off. To be short with him, and snappy. (to use a crappy tone really). Do you see…

Read more Break the Pattern

If you are a nice guy, you likely are not in a sexually fulfilling, or otherwise fulfilling relationship. Why? – Nice guys seek approval above all else– Nice guys are needy– Nice guys are indirect– Nice guys are actually manipulative and controlling– Nice guys are transactional– Nice guys lack self love and confidence– Nice guys…

Read more Nice Guy Syndrome

You want to raise children who will come to you when they get into trouble. You want to raise kids who you have a good relationship with, especially as your child gets older and life gets more and more challenging to navigate for the child. You want your children to be able to trust you…

Read more Will They Come to you?