December 2020

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The apple may not fall far from the tree. ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŒณ. If your child is defensive, and combative, you may be defensive and combative and hurt too. (That’s what defensiveness is. It’s hurt and pain bottled up and then projected out). In essence, the environment (the parent’s own hurt and defensiveness) can teach the child how…

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“๏ผฉ ๏ผฎ๏ผฅ๏ผฅ๏ผค ๏ผน๏ผฏ๏ผต ๏ผด๏ผฏ _______ “ In the context of parenting, I don’t use this phrasing. It doesn’t feel right. In general, I don’t actually “need” my child to finish his vegetables or to have a shower. I definitely have needs. But they don’t so much involve my children. Also, I see them as my…

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๐Ÿ˜Ÿ๐Ÿ˜ค๐™ฟ๐šŠ๐š›๐šŽ๐š—๐š๐šœ ๐š ๐š‘๐š˜ ๐šŠ๐š›๐šŽ ๐š‘๐šŠ๐š›๐š ๐š˜๐š— ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ๐š–๐šœ๐šŽ๐š•๐šŸ๐šŽ๐šœ: ๐™ณ๐š˜ ๐š๐š‘๐š’๐šœ ๐šŽ๐šก๐šŽ๐š›๐šŒ๐š’๐šœ๐šŽ (๐˜ช๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ’๐˜ฅ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ)๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค Write a letter to yourself expressing, empathy, validation, and compassion…to you.I know that you might think that you have to be hard on you, but more being hard on yourself likely isn’t going to get you where you want to go. It may…

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